Wednesday, 10 August 2011

NAME DATING

in the dating world, names mean a lot. Sometimes, when you mention you are dating an Alfred or a Olivia, you are given a thumbs up, you are safe. Today, we bring you a list of names which are usually related to the worst crimes in the dating world.

Andrew, now these guys have earned our worst name on the list. Andrews love money with a passion and may even substitute you for money. Their lust for money matches that they have for women, these guys love women. Anything in a skirt is worth looking over and they do not waste any time. They are so jealous it hurts. They don’t like it when you see any other guy, talk or even call or receive calls from a guy. Their arrogance is disarming, they think they are the best people in the world and do not accept wrongs. They are even so talkative but at least they are social. They talk to people and can easily make friends anytime.

Allan, we love these guys, I mean they are handsome but when it comes to relationships. They are quiet. It is hard getting a word out of these guy’s mouth, you may even die trying. It is so funny how a guy can de-tooth, these guys love money but do not work for it. They get money from the women willing to part from money. They are plan-less, they lack focus for the future, and they survive on their sharpness. They can easily work their way through life without working a notch for what they have and they will have the guts to say they are doing well, financially.

Brian, this name is related to the era of Mills and Boon where names like Ryan were rampant. Brian are unusually handsome and so hot, you may fail to find a fault with them, till you get in a relationship with them. They are usually poor men, they rely so much on their physical beauty that they forget they have to work to earn a living. Their beauty makes them players, they know they can get any woman they want without a hustle. Being handsome comes hand in hand with short-temperedness. They know they are handsome so nothing can stop them from getting what they want, anger them and they will get unnecessarily angry and walk out on you. To make matters worse, they will have the guts to accuse them of being in the wrong, they are so defensive when it comes to arguing their case.

Christopher is a name for quiet guys. They are so shy and in a way lack purpose, they do not have future plans, they live for today and tomorrow has to take care of itself. They have characters of women like looking downcast instead of looking into someone’s eyes; their manners are almost lady like. This makes them an easy target for the women that’s why they are womanizers. They love women and do not hide it, at least to them selves.

Daniel is another name that attracts a lot of attention. These guys are horny, I do not know how scientific that is but it is true, they love sex so much it is annoying. They are a handsome lot and players. They love women and women love them back but are not relationship oriented. They can get casual flings but when it gets to getting serious, they run away.
Emmanuel, these guys shame the origin of the name. They are womanizers to the dot, they don’t let anything in a skirt go by without commenting, wooing or even saying hi. They are bold enough to say they are single in front of their girlfriends and still feel okay about it. They are proud and arrogant. They know they have good communication skills with the ladies and use this to get them far. However, they are not disarmingly handsome, their tongues is the only weapon they have on the women.
Isaacs are lady killers, they have romantic fibers in their bodies and know it. This makes them players and unfaithful. They have what it takes to make women satisfied and once you get one, you will know what I am talking about. But, be careful, Isaacs are proud and brag about their ability to get as many women as they want. So, be on guard.
Richards are unusually good people. They are quiet, humble and do not like experiencing life. Risks are not in their genes and they do every thing right, that is why most Richards do things like being a waiter, wall painters, they love drinking and parting without any clue on how tomorrow will be.
Timothy- proud, arrogant, braggarts and do not have a care in the world. Most of them are not handsome, they are usually financially stable and they do not want any problem, if you call women that. They love women, just like Brian and they go for who ever is available. They are more comfortable with casual not serious relationships.
Lastly, we have Steve; such a sweet name but totally wrong characters. Steves are usually rigid people, our parents and parents before them were called Steve and all they want is to be traditional, to the dot. They can’t stand change and they let you know that. When he likes you, be ready to get a knife to cut him off because these guys are ‘supergluers’. They stick on you lest you run away from them. They will stalk you till you block their phone numbers or report them to the police.
That is all that we had for you in relation to the names of the men which are to be careful about. If you have one who is not on this list, let us know, if he is on the list and the characters do not apply on him, be happy, he is 1% of those who do not have these character traits.
Do not worry gentlemen, i also bring you the names of those women you should try avoiding.
Women are lovely characters, beautiful, loving, caring, and the like. But they are also vile creatures. We bring you the wickedest girl names, these girls are men killers and they love the job.
Grace, this is a name for the extremely sexy women. They love life and they are beautiful. Do not be deceived though. These ladies are heart breakers, they cheat like hell and do not give a damn. They wait for you to love them, fall head over heals and leave you gaping after them when they are done with you.
Sandra, these beautiful creatures of God are greedy, not for men but for food. They love food, the same way they love men and money. The two go hand in hand, you have money and you are a man, just stretch your arms and she will fall into your embrace. When you love one, be careful, they are argumentative. They argue with any kind of thing worth arguing about. They carry on to defensive, they try to be in the right all the time and they do not miss a thing. They are a jealous lot. When they get a man, they are ready to bite off someone’s head if she touches her man.
Irene, they are the epitome of beauty but are cowards. They do not have the courage to do anything worth remembering. But, they are sex maniacs. These women love sex as much as money. They de-tooth money from men like no man’s business. They look good so you can not know they do not work for what they have.
Suzan, sorry guys but these ladies are not attractive. They are so quiet and faithful in all their endeavors. But be careful, they may run out on you once they gain their self esteem. They are bold and outspoken; if you are looking for that, don’t look any further than any lady called Suzan.
Sharon is a name associated to beauty, unfaithfulness, sexiness, and money. These are unusually beautiful and they know it. They will treat men like dirt if you try to woo her and when you finally succeed, she will let you do everything for her. You will fuel her car, pick her up from work and the rest, she is beautiful and you do not want to lose her, right? They mastered the skill of lying and break hearts steadily.
Barbra is a name linked to fat girls and casual relationships. They do not want anything serious so they settle for a little love and then they leave. They are argumentative and they want you to know they are right all the time.
Rachael is now another name to reckon with. They are beautiful girls who do not care for anything in the world. They are beautiful and unfaithful women. Women usually called Rachael love money and they want to get it all the time.
Elizabeth are quiet women, faithful. They are however also proud and boring. Their silence gets too deafening and this makes you yearn for something fun every time you are with them.
Mary is a name to avoid at all costs. These women are stickers, they stick to whoever man is available. To the women, if you have a Mary friend, be careful they are men snatchers. They will stick to your man and not leave till they through you out of the picture. They are schemers, they plan strategies to get you hooked or even killed.
Last on our list is Sarah. Most men know what I am talking about. Sarah is a name linked to arrogance, beauty, pride, money and unfaithfulness. Most of them are proud of their beauty, or rather that other Sarahs are beautiful. They love money and they show it in every way. You can spell unfaithfulness in their eyes and arrogance is their sister.
Women are considered vile creatures because they have the power to make men weak. However, be careful when looking for one, and these names can help you. If I did not put a name, comment, I will know, if I did and she is not like that, be glad.

Monday, 8 August 2011

WHY WOMEN HATE OTHER WOMEN

Women compete with each other at a societal level, the criteria for winning is usually set by others and the results are subjective and intangible. Women are usually judged by characteristics that they have little control over; something that they did not create, and that exist outside of themselves such as their physical appearance. Her success is based on subjective, biased, external validation by others. She can't see how to beat her rival because her rival is in no more control of the outcome than she is. How can you really be more beautiful than another woman, when the decision is nothing more than someone else's opinion of beauty?

How can you change someone's personal preference for a certain body size and shape, a particular eye color or a fondness for Kikuyus? How many people are needed to think that you are beautiful before it is a valid or meaningful judgment? Who do you need to tell you that you are beautiful before you can believe it to be true... construction workers, truck drivers, the man walking down the street, your pastor, the Pope, your boss? Women compete with each other for male attention and compliments as if it feeds their self-worth and self-esteem. Women try to dress sexier and have shapelier bodies than other women.

Women instinctively know that men have little power when it comes to sexual intercourse in male and female relationships. Women know that if a platonic relationship exists between a male and a female, ninety percent of the time it is a platonic relationship because the woman does not want to have sex with the man instead of visa versa. Most women do not feel that men are psychologically or biologically capable of resisting another woman's sexual prowess because of their undying love, loyalty and respect for their committed relationship with them. If a man does not engage in a sexual relationship with a woman who is drop dead gorgeous, most women believe that it is because the other woman was in control of the outcome of the type of relationship. Women intuitively know that most heterosexual males find extraordinary beautiful women sexually irresistible and if that extraordinary beautiful woman wanted her man, he would be hers for the taking.

Women are so busy competing with each other for male attention that they do not have the psychological, intellectual or emotional insight to change the social climate that is causing them to suffer from low-self esteem. Women think of men as being promiscuous, unfaithful, lying, cheating dogs. But what most women need to come to grips with and understand is that research shows that a man is most likely to have a sexual affair with a woman's best friend, relative or neighbor... a woman whom she trusts, loves and respects. One of the reasons that men who cheat are so successful at it is because women allow them to because they are in competition with each other.

Women believe that they are superior to other women if they are physically more attractive. In a commercial for a diet pill a woman bragged, "I am now smaller than the woman my husband left me for." This statement leads me to believe that she felt that she deserved her husband's infidelity when she was over weight. Her motive for losing weight was to be physically smaller than the other woman that her husband left her for. She viewed the other woman as competition more so than feeling betrayed by her husband's disloyalty. The wife's motive for losing weight was not to improve the status of her health or increase her self-esteem but be smaller than her competition__ the other woman. The weight control commercial is blatantly telling women that they need to look a certain way in order to earn their husband's love and fidelity. It doesn't matter whether or not you cook his meals, raise his kids, and support his dreams... what matters most in a relationship is whether or not you are physically attractive enough to keep your man at home. There is an assumption that it is natural for a man to cheat on a woman who he feels is no longer sexually appealing. Many women believe that it is their fault when their husband or boyfriend cheats on them because they are not attractive enough to keep him faithful.

A woman's perception of self-worth is validated outside of her self from others and this affects her internal psychological concept of her own value as a human being. Women compete indirectly with other women because they have not learned how to recognize and channel their internal desires, feelings and goals into physical, tangible realities. Once women learn that they can not control or live vicariously through their children or the man in their life; they will stop hating each other and focus on their individual unique gifts, talents and assets.

Why do women hate other women?
1. Women feel that their biological prime-time is limited. She can easily be replaced by a new younger, more beautiful woman. Youth is a woman's fair-weathered friend.
2. Women feel that other women control their man's sexual fidelity.
3. Women feel that their level or degree of physical beauty is based on luck as opposed to something that she controls.
4. Women feel that other women can take something that they have worked hard to earn by using their beauty on the job, school and the legal system because men will be taken by her beauty.
5. Women feel that other women can not be trusted. They gossip too much, they are phony and they would take your man right before your eyes.
6. Women feel that other women divert attention away from them.
7. Women feel psychologically competitive with other women to be more attractive.
8. Women subconsciously believe that if they merely looked like another woman, they could inherit her life, her diamond, her man, and people would look at her with the same admiration.
The following dialogue was edited from a variety of websites discussing how women relate to each other:
Points to Ponder:
o You can never stop a man from looking at or admiring another woman's beauty. Do you really feel that another woman is more valuable as human being than you are simply because of her physical appearance?
o You are more than your physical body. What talents, gifts or skills do you have to contribute to society?
o You can not control what other people think of you. Once you truly accept the truth that you have no control over other people's thoughts about who you are or how you should live your life; you will be free to design your own life from the inside out.
o You can never compete with anyone but yourself.
o The only person who you can control is yourself...period.
o Whatever you seek in other people develop in yourself. You don't need to marry a doctor; become a doctor.
o You are the most important person in the world who must believe, acknowledge and recognize your own authentic and unique beauty. Why should anyone love and respect you more than you love and respect yourself.