The ultimate guide to dating

Dating 101

• Posted on Apr 27, 2011 1:53 PM by koshi
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listen more, talk less.

i highly advise against spending too much time talking about yourself, which can actually put a damper on any connection the two of you might have. Taming your urge to talk is tough, especially when you're nervous, but  thinking of the date as a job interview with drinks.. "If you know you want the job, you'd better learn a lot about the company," she says. "You can't do that if all you are doing is talking about yourself." kwanza this applies to madame wengi sana....under 25s

Ask the right questions.

Focus on questions about personal, overarching topics rather than work, when men hear the question, "What do you do for work?" what they actually hear is, "How much do you make?" Because you don’t want to come off as a gold digger ama u have a par time job hapa kstreet. asking questions such as "What was your best meal ever?" and "What did you do for your 21st birthday?" -- things that will truly help you get to know him as a person, not a bank account.

dress appropriately.

Showing too much skin on your first (or even second) date is never a good idea.  being selective in your approach. Pick one asset you love about your body and flaunt that (legs, breasts, shoulders, booty, etc), but choose only one, not three. If things go well, you will have other dates on which to reveal other assets. "If you can't think of what you like about your body and what to flaunt, then you shouldn't go on the date at all! Men love self-confidence. Flaunt that first."

be at your best.

Having one successful date is great, but there’s a lot of pressure where following up is concerned. treating the first 10 dates like they're all the very first. "What you wear, how you smell and what you look like matter to men. If they see you put your best foot forward for your first few dates and then peter out later, they think you don't care," she explains, adding that men always want to think you are trying for them. Doing little things that will make it look like you're still trying.  "Shave, shower, primp, pluck and preen. Always,"