Sunday 17 July 2011

KENYAN MEN FOR DUMMIES




Let me introduce you to the kenyan man. He is witty, charming and very confident, he has a sense of arrogance that women like, and he has the mentality of “I have nothing to lose and everything to gain”. He is the guy in any social arena that can either be very visible or he blends in but in a very calculative way. He takes no chances when he interacts with women; he has learnt how to read a woman’s body language. He will meet a woman and start to chat her up as he assess her interests by observing her face; yes he can tell within minutes if a woman is interested in him, it’s all in the eye contact and positive facial expression. Once he is certain that there’s a seed of interest depending on his agenda, for the night, he will determine through their conversation whether the woman is looking for ‘a good time’ or she just finds him ‘manly’ and more interesting in comparison with the other men at that particular venue. If she is worth his time, he will stick around and charm her some more, lay a foundation he can build on.
What I’m saying is, if she is worth the ‘marinating period’ (when a man doesn’t rush a woman into having a one night stand, he exchanges numbers with her to enjoy the spoils at a later date). Many kenyan men use this strategy, it’s like hunting plenty of stock for the winter or dry spells. This is how it works ‘talk to plenty of women you desire’ exchange numbers, keep flirting for a period of time (weeks, months) and the more women you connect with the better the odds of getting laid over the months to come, they are simply marinating like meat to be cooked later. Hence why some men ask their male friends “how do you keep getting laid so often”, well that’s how. Talking of friends, in almost every click of ‘boys’ there’s undoubtedly a guy who alwaays gets praise from his buddies, he scores highly with the ladies. Now you know how.
I have mentioned ‘eye contact’ has one of the key indicators for an Alpha male. A good example would be the reason why when you want to evaluate ‘the truth’ you will most of the time ask the person to ‘look you in the eyes’. The kenyan man uses that technique to filter potential attraction. When he goes to a club he will not sit anywhere, if you observe closely over a period of club nights you will notice that within a click of friends the he will always want to be in-front of the pack so that he can select a suitable position to achieve the best visual of all the women at the venue. Sometimes he is known to sit facing the ‘ladies room’ to visually screen them as they pass by. He is a true predator.
He will sit at his most suitable place and attempt ‘eye contact’ with several women of his taste. When a woman makes eye contact with him, and then she looks away more than two or three times, that to an him is a sign to engage. When he approaches her to spark dialogue if the woman maintains eye contact, she is definitely interested, he will know this better than most men. If she happens to break eye contact, that may signal that she may have just been admiring and nothing more but he will still reach her side and give her his business card after a brief chat, he will make sure that he makes it clear that he wants her. With the card in her hand she is now either going to dispose of it or keep it. Most of the time women will keep the card out of curiosity. And you know curiosity eventually kills the cat, if you get my drift! That’s the perfect marinating strategy.


The kenyan man also has other signals that he looks out for, such as a woman playing with her hair or playing with her neck in an almost ‘sexy motion’, this is to draw his attention.  It’s an unconscious action that women perform when they see or feel something that provokes a moment of thrill, excitement or desire. Another massive give away is in the movement of a woman’s arms or hands, he will keenly observe her motions and decide when to strike. he understands nonverbal signals and translates them with a very high success rate. While engaging in conversation an he will quickly asks questions ‘about her, her interests’ that will give him an edge over other males, he will want to take charge at the same time be very attentive watching her every move and listening to her every word. He knows how to compliment her without sounding ‘fake’. Over time he will have mastered to notice newly done hair, nails, and a unique item on her body like a dress, bracelet, chain, and tattoo. All these things he looks for make it easier to talk about things that relate to her, hence why many men fail in the initial engagement level. The woman notices that the man is trying to break the ice repeatedly as he seeks to find common ground, trying too hard to impress, when topics of discussion are staring at him right in the face. other men take a while to notice and to finally get a woman’s interest.
In a nutshell, why do we like kenyan men? Well he is confident, has a very manly assertive nature and he knows how to judge the degree of assertiveness depending on the woman; he easily adapts to any woman’s interest. I’m sure women are asking if an kenyan men can be a suitable ‘boyfriend’ or ‘husband’. The answer is yes the kenyan can be the most loyal dedicated man. If he decides to give; he gives his all, the only downside to a kenyan man, if I can call it that', is that he wants the same affection accorded to him. A woman who gives less will soon find herself confronted with his disappointments. The kenyan mane will always voice his concerns; he likes to maintain a good thing so he will fight for it till he can do no more. And yes indeed he can be the player of players but when he meets the one woman who keeps him motivated and feeds his world with positive energy, constantly soothing his ego, he will stay loyal giving the woman overwhelming attention.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

What were you doing blogging at 0221 hrs? Aich! Anyway,why does talk about men always end up with the loyalty part? The women, are they loyal kweli?

Free dating in Kenya said...

Kenyan men are the best lovers in the world. They really know how to treat their women like queens.

Shay said...

Im an african american women.Im absolutely in love with my Kenyan boyfriend.