This is one question that women constantly me: whether there’s a moment or period when you have some trust or guarantee that the man graced with the pleasure to explore your legs among other parts of your anatomy will still be interested after you have sex with him. The question "Will he still respect me after sex / in the morning?" is one I've heard time and time again.
Well ladies the truth of the matter is there is no amount of time that will give you 100% certainty that he will stick around to do more than just stick his willy up your p----! Plus the word ‘respect’ is not associated in anyway with the act of sex. Personally I have never heard a guy during sex and utter these words: “Baby, this position is so respectable ;do you see how much respect I have for you?". I mean the notion is just ridiculous. Let me give an example that may have befallen a few of you in this day and age.
Men are tactful creatures (not all but most) and can be very charming and sweet to gain what lies between those legs of yours. Oh yes, last but not at all least, men can be very very patient like a grizzly bear stalking trout in a fast moving river.
Here is a guy who goes out to a social place in the hope that he may meet some hot random girl (hot is relative). As he surveys the available delicacies that the environment has to offer he mingles with a few. And as is expected by men, he gets rejected by a few women until he finally finds his ultimate prey. He then strategizes, as they chat, on his next set of clever, charming, funny lines to tantalise her interest and maybe create some mystery about him. She falls for the bait, and in his mind he is sure something will come out of this time spent exhausting his brain cells and we all know he’s not thinking of a hot cooked meal! If anything is baking at his or her place it better be between her legs. I’m sure the men reading this concur.
What puzzles us me in regards to courtship especially in social places like clubs and bars, a man meets a woman and when the man hints that he has sexual intent the woman becomes defensive and judgemental towards the guy. Well, excuuuuse me ladies! Let me shed some light: you are a woman and you have been engaging in conversation with a guy you just met and have done so for probably a few hours during that night, teasing and flirting each other for all that time. So did you think the guy was a good Samaritan of chit chat or did you think he approached you to find out if you were a possible long term girlfriend or wife material (whatever that means), or that he has nothing better to do than spend a good part of the night talking to you because his lips needs exercising? Please! Give me a break!
Ladies if you are out there in the social scene and you fancy a guy ,what you decide to do with him sexually is solely your personal journey to the unknown hence why they call it adventure. If you sleep with a guy regardless of what he may have said, done, promised, professed, bought, overwhelmingly impressed you with, you must know that none of the above should determine whether you spread your legs or not it should be a decision without any expectations what so ever. Hopefully you are just horny and you want to get laid.
When you walk into a cookie shop and bite into a new flavoured cookie expecting a mouth watering experience well picture that as the new guy between your legs, something tells me that if he doesn’t rock your world, depending on your bedroom appetite, you will most likely not see him again.
And for those of you who were pampered with the high life then dumped well regardless of how much money was thrown your way ‘it was just a means to an end’. Some men have deep pockets and cash like multiple tequila shots is a very effective panty remover and I’m sure both genders can attest to that fact.
So as you enjoy yourselves I’m sure there are many social events, out of town ventures, house parties some kinkier than others, my word of advise is have fun and be safe doing it. If you happen to spread your legs which I’m sure many of you will, hopefully you receive some satisfaction out of it, but let it not be out of some smooth lines or material incentives.
In regards to men, if you take anything from this article, remember that upfront men are far more a better than those who play the ‘Mr Nice Guy’. Yes, 'Mr Upfront’ may tell you on the same day that he wants to bed you and that may not appeal but the fundamental thing is that he has the balls to just lay the cards on the table and a reasonable upfront guy will know when to quit if you don’t fancy him at all. Now I know for many women ‘Mr Nice Guy’ is sweet and at times romantic but trust me the sweet many a times turns sour over a period of time when his true colours are slowly unveiled.
Ladies I bid you all the best in your encounters with men but do read this article over and over and apply it to situations that may have occurred in your life, does it make sense, does it ring bells relating to your past predicaments, Only you can answer that.
Be safe all times and have a great time wherever you will be.
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Summary: All girls, if you just want to screw a guy, go ahead (my favourite type of gals!). If you dont want to screw him but want to marry him (or his money), please dont screw him just yet. Ngojea mpaka (u)mfunge pingu za maisha!
If you want to have sex as a woman, go ahead. don't have such hang ups as a woman
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