Many a time it happens that the guy you have a crush on, turns out to be someone’s boyfriend. In such a case, because of this attraction for him, you tend to look for ways to attract him towards you. Though this may not sound easy, it is quite possible to create a good impression on him. Slowly and steadily you can finally make him leave any girl for you
The first thing you have to do in order to attract a guy who is already seeing someone is to try to be around him most of the time. You need to find out ways to assure a constant contact with him. This can be done by joining some class where he is regular or visiting places where he usually hangs out. Once you see each other frequently, you should try to become his friend, and strike a conversation with him.
When starting a conversation, try to pick up a topic of his interest so that he instantly gets involved. Make sure that you do not indulge in a monologue and keep babbling about yourself as this will surely turn him off. Talk about something in general or make him notice that you often cross each others way.
Once you start a conversation with the guy, it is important that you listen to whatever he says to you. This is because guys generally like girls who are patient listeners. However when you speak to him, it is better that you watch how and what you talk to him. You would never want to sound immature or selfish in front of. Also do not reveal much about you in the very first conversation, this may leave him desiring to know more. Next, do pay special attention to your body language.
Confessing your love directly may not be a good idea in the beginning. Instead, it is better that you give him signs and signals signifying your feelings towards him. Once you get to know him better, it is the right time for you to tell him straight forward what it is that you want from him before you go any further. This is because if he is serious about his girlfriend, he might not be interested in you and you have to respect his decision.
Whatever you do to attract the guy having a girlfriend, you have to ensure that it does not look too obvious that you are trying to steal him from his girlfriend. This will only build a bad reputation for you. Never sound or look desperate when around him or when you talk to him as this too creates a bad impression about you. By implementing these tips, you stand a good chance of attaining your goal.
3 comments:
Dead wrong. On the contrary, avoid being around the man you want all the time. Short limited glimpses of a glamourous woman are more likely to catch a guy's attention that open constant flaunting or "open stalking".
Wrong advice. Doesn't work on the long run. You will only get laid and dumped. Then he'll go back to his reliable girlfriend. A sense of Mystery works a lot better. and that is no guarantee that you'll get him anyway.
A woman will also steal your man like that and there will be nothing you can do about it.
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